The gig on April 9 must have been good for your soul. Caught some of it on YouTube. You looked happier than I've seen you look on stage possibly ever. Gorgeous, too! So sorry for the loss of Clem. You did him proud at Coachella and the Roxy! Hope the Go-Gos will come to the East Coast soon. We're waiting for you!
I’m in Texas right now visiting my almost 84-year-old mom, who is starting to fade despite my lifelong belief that she will outlive the cockroaches. It’s a melancholy visit, as these always are, given that I left the state 31 years ago and only periodically return. I spent the day (12 hours) cleaning the junk out of her garage and thinking about all of the things that await me.
I’ve spent my morning trying to catch up on my Substack subscriptions, and had put this in the queue to read. As always, I’m struck by your writing, and completely identified with the present-past conundrum.
My condolences to you, and congratulations on the many exciting things that are ahead. Thank you for this from the bottom of my heart.
Hi Kathy, so sorry about Clem. I was lucky to meet him once in NYC before Blondie's show at the Highline Ballroom. He signed my cd and couldn't have been more approachable and so cool. I can relate to botwot. That's a good word. "This present is very past-ish" is one of my favorite thoughts in this entry. Your lead vocals on "I'm On Red" simply rock. Sounds so good. Wishing you much success with your upcoming shows. I'm so glad the Go-Go's are making music together again. Seeing my favorite band reunited means everything to me. Just the thought of it, and getting to see photos and videos of the five of you together, is part of what makes up my best of times.
"duḥkha" ? It has broad meanings in Buddhism. It can be a simple as going to a fancy restaurant, being really happy about it, and ordering your favorite dish, and they bring you something else. Or, more powerfully, someone who you really love to be around suddenly dies. The best and worst are brought together, and the resulting contrast is experienced as "duḥkha" -- it's a lot like 'disappointment' but they deconstruct it to find it permeates all existence. So it's like recognizing you live in the best and worst at the same time.
Given all that--you have my sincere regards and condolences. Words fail. :(
Kathy, I’m so sorry about your loss. I heard about and read about from you, how close you were with Clem. Cancer sucks and I’m sorry he had to go through that. I lost a dear friend in February to cancer. She was the most patient, sweetest person, and was taken way too young. I’m so glad that my surgery took away my pain and I was able to see her a few times before she passed. She has two young adult daughters and was telling me how well they were doing. One of her daughters said it was the best time in her life and it was the worst time in her life. My friend told her daughter that she wanted her to be happy and it was OK for her to be happy. That’s why I gave you that advice. That it’s OK to be about happy about good things in our lives. But it’s so hard, struggling through that sadness and grief, and losing somebody so special to us.
A day or two after she started hospice care, I randomly watched a movie, called Off the Rails. “Three fifty-something women set out to repeat the European inter-railing adventures of their youth, after their close friend passes away leaving them rail tickets, and a final request: to take her teenage daughter with them.” Of course I related because that is our age, and she has such lovely daughters. Why I chose to watch a movie on that subject at that time, I do not know! And it stars Kelly Preston, who also lost a battle to cancer. But the whole movie was a soundtrack of Blondie music. That music and the love in their friendships did give me some comfort at that time. So, Clem and his music helped me that evening. I’m sending love to you, and all of Clem’s family and friends.
Kathy, so sorry to hear about Clem. I know from your book that he was a close friend to you and other members of the Go-Go’s. He was a great drummer. I will be morning along with you and your Go-Go sisters!
Kathy, I’m so sorry for your loss! My condolences!
I always thought it was cool that my musical taste was similar to Clem’s, as I would frequently be in a will call line, small club, the Greek, or Hollywood Bowl, and I would spot Clem nearby. Clem was always approachable and friendly.
I’ll never forget that a few hours prior to your morning Walk of Fame ceremony, a friend and I met up at a valley Starbucks close to the Metro, and Clem walked in. We immediately knew that Clem was most likely heading to the same place we were, and were surprised when Clem was up at the podium, providing your band’s induction speech. Clem’s words about you and your bandmates were so sincere and thoughtful!
May he Rest In Peace! May his memory be a blessing!
Kathy: I do a short podcast about essential vinyl albums ("I've Got That On Vinyl") which does short format interviews about what notable people's "5 essential" would be. It would be an honor if you would come on and talk to me about yours. If you're interested I can be reached at tenjunkmiles @ gmail. If not, no response necessary and keep doing all you do! PS: I'm also a friend of Bill, 32 yrs.
I saw the news about Clem, Kathy, and I wanted to express my condolences to you and to his family. I always loved his work and he will be missed by all of us music fans.
I’m so sad to see that Clem has passed, and I want to send my condolences to you, Kathy. I feel privileged to have briefly met him in Cleveland on your solo tour years ago, and I know he was deeply loved by you. I’m very sorry. 💔
The gig on April 9 must have been good for your soul. Caught some of it on YouTube. You looked happier than I've seen you look on stage possibly ever. Gorgeous, too! So sorry for the loss of Clem. You did him proud at Coachella and the Roxy! Hope the Go-Gos will come to the East Coast soon. We're waiting for you!
I’m in Texas right now visiting my almost 84-year-old mom, who is starting to fade despite my lifelong belief that she will outlive the cockroaches. It’s a melancholy visit, as these always are, given that I left the state 31 years ago and only periodically return. I spent the day (12 hours) cleaning the junk out of her garage and thinking about all of the things that await me.
I’ve spent my morning trying to catch up on my Substack subscriptions, and had put this in the queue to read. As always, I’m struck by your writing, and completely identified with the present-past conundrum.
My condolences to you, and congratulations on the many exciting things that are ahead. Thank you for this from the bottom of my heart.
My condolences, Kathy. I immediately thought of you when I heard the news. 😿
I'm so glad I caught the Livestream! Thanks so much for doing that! You guys rock and i can't wait to see you in Pasadena!
Hi Kathy, so sorry about Clem. I was lucky to meet him once in NYC before Blondie's show at the Highline Ballroom. He signed my cd and couldn't have been more approachable and so cool. I can relate to botwot. That's a good word. "This present is very past-ish" is one of my favorite thoughts in this entry. Your lead vocals on "I'm On Red" simply rock. Sounds so good. Wishing you much success with your upcoming shows. I'm so glad the Go-Go's are making music together again. Seeing my favorite band reunited means everything to me. Just the thought of it, and getting to see photos and videos of the five of you together, is part of what makes up my best of times.
Hi Kathy, I just subscribed and also sent you an email. Hope you get it. Sending you love and strength. ❤️🙏
"duḥkha" ? It has broad meanings in Buddhism. It can be a simple as going to a fancy restaurant, being really happy about it, and ordering your favorite dish, and they bring you something else. Or, more powerfully, someone who you really love to be around suddenly dies. The best and worst are brought together, and the resulting contrast is experienced as "duḥkha" -- it's a lot like 'disappointment' but they deconstruct it to find it permeates all existence. So it's like recognizing you live in the best and worst at the same time.
Given all that--you have my sincere regards and condolences. Words fail. :(
Kathy, I’m so sorry. 😞
Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. Cancer can eff right off.
Kathy, I’m so sorry about your loss. I heard about and read about from you, how close you were with Clem. Cancer sucks and I’m sorry he had to go through that. I lost a dear friend in February to cancer. She was the most patient, sweetest person, and was taken way too young. I’m so glad that my surgery took away my pain and I was able to see her a few times before she passed. She has two young adult daughters and was telling me how well they were doing. One of her daughters said it was the best time in her life and it was the worst time in her life. My friend told her daughter that she wanted her to be happy and it was OK for her to be happy. That’s why I gave you that advice. That it’s OK to be about happy about good things in our lives. But it’s so hard, struggling through that sadness and grief, and losing somebody so special to us.
A day or two after she started hospice care, I randomly watched a movie, called Off the Rails. “Three fifty-something women set out to repeat the European inter-railing adventures of their youth, after their close friend passes away leaving them rail tickets, and a final request: to take her teenage daughter with them.” Of course I related because that is our age, and she has such lovely daughters. Why I chose to watch a movie on that subject at that time, I do not know! And it stars Kelly Preston, who also lost a battle to cancer. But the whole movie was a soundtrack of Blondie music. That music and the love in their friendships did give me some comfort at that time. So, Clem and his music helped me that evening. I’m sending love to you, and all of Clem’s family and friends.
Kathy, so sorry to hear about Clem. I know from your book that he was a close friend to you and other members of the Go-Go’s. He was a great drummer. I will be morning along with you and your Go-Go sisters!
Kathy, I’m so sorry for your loss! My condolences!
I always thought it was cool that my musical taste was similar to Clem’s, as I would frequently be in a will call line, small club, the Greek, or Hollywood Bowl, and I would spot Clem nearby. Clem was always approachable and friendly.
I’ll never forget that a few hours prior to your morning Walk of Fame ceremony, a friend and I met up at a valley Starbucks close to the Metro, and Clem walked in. We immediately knew that Clem was most likely heading to the same place we were, and were surprised when Clem was up at the podium, providing your band’s induction speech. Clem’s words about you and your bandmates were so sincere and thoughtful!
May he Rest In Peace! May his memory be a blessing!
Kathy: I do a short podcast about essential vinyl albums ("I've Got That On Vinyl") which does short format interviews about what notable people's "5 essential" would be. It would be an honor if you would come on and talk to me about yours. If you're interested I can be reached at tenjunkmiles @ gmail. If not, no response necessary and keep doing all you do! PS: I'm also a friend of Bill, 32 yrs.
I saw the news about Clem, Kathy, and I wanted to express my condolences to you and to his family. I always loved his work and he will be missed by all of us music fans.
I am so sorry for your loss Kathy! Prayers for you and his family!
I’m so sad to see that Clem has passed, and I want to send my condolences to you, Kathy. I feel privileged to have briefly met him in Cleveland on your solo tour years ago, and I know he was deeply loved by you. I’m very sorry. 💔
Saw the news today and my heart goes out to you.